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Gold Standard Justice
This blog article is prompted by an article "Scotland has delivered the gold standard in domestic violence legislation". I recommend you...
Sep 19, 20204 min read
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Wilderness Conversations Podcast on Hear Believe Act
Brother Stephen Dodson from Riverwood Ecclesia in Sydney has set up a very interesting podcast channel, and in his most recent episode he...
Sep 16, 20201 min read
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Of misogyny and mental illness
The discourse around domestic violence in our midst is worrying. Have you noticed it? Are you a part of it? Are you taken in by it? By...
Aug 31, 20209 min read
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When it is not "A Marriage Problem"?
Human cognitive biases include a tendency to interpret information in a way that supports our preconceptions (confirmation bias) and...
Aug 29, 202010 min read
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In an emergency...
In an emergency, call the Police. At least for most developed countries, and for many developing countries, calling the Police or other...
Dec 23, 20194 min read
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Domestic Violence in the ecclesia
We often get asked about the prevalence of domestic violence in the Christadelphian community. In the same way as the ABC (Australian...
Nov 25, 20173 min read
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How can ecclesias respond?
This question is the question we get asked most often, by almost everyone involved including the ecclesias themselves. How can ecclesias...
May 2, 20177 min read
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The scriptures and separating...
Logically it seems obvious that for mental wellbeing, for safety and to underscore that the relationship has broken down and needs to be...
Apr 26, 20177 min read
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Good fathers like our Heavenly Father seek our well-being
In a earlier blog we looked at domestic violence as a means of maintaining control within relationships. We examined the dynamics of...
Mar 21, 20173 min read
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The Atonement & The Abuser
The Atonement is not just a doctrine for learned brothers to debate – it is a life to be lived. Christ came into the world to save...
Mar 5, 20173 min read
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Power and control: the defining feature of domestic violence
Not all violence in marriage is domestic violence as defined by the law, nor is all violence in marriage the focus for the Hear Believe...
Mar 3, 20173 min read
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What does domestic violence feel like? How destructive can it be?
The Pastor’s Wife is a 2011 biographical film for Television that is a based on a true crime book of the same title. It is currently...
Mar 2, 20171 min read
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When we get the response wrong
Religious teachings can be a roadblock to stopping domestic violence. It does not have to be so. At the Hear Believe Act Project we have...
Feb 27, 20174 min read
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"Surely it is time to move on"
Survivors invariably say that family members, friends in the ecclesia and out of it and the abuser tell them, “Surely it is time to move...
Feb 27, 20173 min read
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“I wouldn’t want my kids around him”
Understanding issues of parenting in families where men use domestic violence. This is a guest post on the Hear Believe Act Blog by...
Feb 26, 20174 min read
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Abuse has long-term effects
In a recent blog post we talked about the emotional and psychological impact of abuse on survivors. We mentioned that it is a long-term...
Feb 19, 20174 min read
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What about the children?
Children are at high risk in domestic abuse situations. They suffer enormously and particularly emotionally. This suffering is often...
Feb 15, 20174 min read
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Counselling and recovery for abusers
Professional counselling to help abusers recognise and understand the real nature of the abusive behaviours they choose to use is an...
Feb 11, 20175 min read
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Counselling and recovery for victims
The Hear Believe Act Project believes that professional counselling has an important role to play in helping survivors recover from the...
Feb 11, 20175 min read
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Understand why victims don’t report abuse to the ecclesia.
We hold dearly to a dangerous misconception - that our ecclesias are easy to approach about a problem. I have had arranging brothers say...
Feb 8, 20174 min read
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