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Tamar’s Autonomy and Voice...
Tamar’s Autonomy and Voice in the face of Judah’s Abuse, and the role of bystanders It may surprise you, but this article about Judah and...
Jan 27, 202110 min read


When women kill their husbands
How do we understand what has happened when women kill their husbands? Even within our community...
Jan 19, 20219 min read
Family, friends, ecclesias - what to do?
One of the most consistent questions we get asked, either specifically about a particular situation, or hypothetically about situations...
Dec 21, 20203 min read


Coercive Control and our response to it
This article was prompted by a news article about a conviction of coercive control against a person of another faith who used scriptural...
Dec 12, 20203 min read


Reality, Empathy & Discernment: "Our reality" and our response to domestic violence
Discernment is a concept recognised in scripture. For instance, the Apostle Paul speaks of the natural man not being able to discern...
Oct 25, 20204 min read


Spiritual abuse - at home and in our community
"Woe be to the shepherds of Israel that do feed themselves! Should not the shepherds feed the flocks? Ye eat the fat, and ye clothe you...
Sep 24, 20209 min read


Gold Standard Justice
This blog article is prompted by an article "Scotland has delivered the gold standard in domestic violence legislation". I recommend you...
Sep 19, 20204 min read


Wilderness Conversations Podcast on Hear Believe Act
Brother Stephen Dodson from Riverwood Ecclesia in Sydney has set up a very interesting podcast channel, and in his most recent episode he...
Sep 16, 20201 min read


Of misogyny and mental illness
The discourse around domestic violence in our midst is worrying. Have you noticed it? Are you a part of it? Are you taken in by it? By...
Aug 31, 20209 min read


When it is not "A Marriage Problem"?
Human cognitive biases include a tendency to interpret information in a way that supports our preconceptions (confirmation bias) and...
Aug 29, 202010 min read


In an emergency...
In an emergency, call the Police. At least for most developed countries, and for many developing countries, calling the Police or other...
Dec 23, 20194 min read
Domestic Violence in the ecclesia
We often get asked about the prevalence of domestic violence in the Christadelphian community. In the same way as the ABC (Australian...
Nov 25, 20173 min read


How can ecclesias respond?
This question is the question we get asked most often, by almost everyone involved including the ecclesias themselves. How can ecclesias...
May 2, 20177 min read


The scriptures and separating...
Logically it seems obvious that for mental wellbeing, for safety and to underscore that the relationship has broken down and needs to be...
Apr 26, 20177 min read


Good fathers like our Heavenly Father seek our well-being
In a earlier blog we looked at domestic violence as a means of maintaining control within relationships. We examined the dynamics of...
Mar 21, 20173 min read


The Atonement & The Abuser
The Atonement is not just a doctrine for learned brothers to debate – it is a life to be lived. Christ came into the world to save...
Mar 5, 20173 min read


Power and control: the defining feature of domestic violence
Not all violence in marriage is domestic violence as defined by the law, nor is all violence in marriage the focus for the Hear Believe...
Mar 4, 20173 min read


What does domestic violence feel like? How destructive can it be?
The Pastor’s Wife is a 2011 biographical film for Television that is a based on a true crime book of the same title. It is currently...
Mar 2, 20171 min read


When we get the response wrong
Religious teachings can be a roadblock to stopping domestic violence. It does not have to be so. At the Hear Believe Act Project we have...
Feb 27, 20174 min read


"Surely it is time to move on"
Survivors invariably say that family members, friends in the ecclesia and out of it and the abuser tell them, “Surely it is time to move...
Feb 27, 20173 min read
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